“An Average Superwoman interview June 17, 2013”
by Sandi Tuttle
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“An Average Superwoman interview June 17, 2013”
by Sandi Tuttle
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When you begin your project, it is too soon to judge if your story is worth telling. Just Write. As you review and edit, you will be able to restructure your story whether it is Fiction or Non-Fiction. Writing a book takes time. I am going to refer to your book as a manuscript. Your manuscript can be messy and full of flaws until you submit it to the editing phase. Your book, on the other hand, has to be clear, with words that move the reader from page to page with anticipation of its end.
I have come across stories I began writing in the past but never completed. As I read them over, I can still see a good book in them.
In the 90s, it was my intention to be a romance novelist. So I listened to co-workers talk about their relationships and experiences, as well as, document my own. I decided to blend our personalities and life experiences to create my characters. The following is from a manuscript from 1995.
“The first time she saw him, he appeared to be larger than he actually was. His eyes were almost green, complementing the dark green sweater he wore. Since then she had seen him in other colors, and she noticed his eyes changed. “I think they call them hazel, ” She thought.
They met one night when she stayed in town with friends. She dreaded the long train ride home to an empty house. She longed for company and someone to laugh with and talk to. Unbeknownst to her, his silver tongue, and good humor would be the beginning and end of her happiness.”
Many times she’ll wonder if the decision to leave her husband for another man while having an affair with a third was the act of a sane person.
“May I have a moment of your time?” Those eight words started it all. That moment stretched into an eternity.
So, this proposed story was about a woman’s journey living with bad decisions and the consequences her decisions caused. Is it worth telling? Yes. Even though our heroine has a dark side to her life, there is hope for her and the story could be written to illustrate how she changed her habits of infidelity around.
I also hear, “Who wants to hear about my life. It is and was boring.” When someone responses with these statements, I begin asking them questions like these:
Depending on the individual, if they are actually interested in writing, they find something to start with and build the story around it.
If you are blessed with the desire to write. Just write. Do not worry about its value or worth. Just write. You will be surprised what you have stored in your subconscious mind just waiting to come out. When you have completed your story, an accountability partner and editor will help you structure and frame your manuscript. For now:
What are your conversations with friends and family like? Are you repeating the same stories to them you have been telling over the years? Have you been writing in journals, on napkins at restaurants, scraps of paper or in your smartphone or tablet? That may be where you will find your passion and your story.
My passion is in telling stories about situations that happened to me. For as long as I remember, I have always told stories. In the 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s, 90s, and now in the 21st Century I am still telling stories and since 1964 writing stories and keeping a journal/diary.
I am motivated by the need to capture my thoughts and emotions so they do not affect my emotions and decisions. I am also motivated to see people smile and listen to their laughter or hear how my stories affected them and feel how their response affected me.
Right now I can see myself on my neighbor’s porch, in the late 50s and 60s, telling limericks, jokes or just making up stories to make her laugh. She would have a bowl of string beans on her lap. Mrs. Burton would snap and laugh. she would share stories of her childhood too. Boy I wish I could remember them. She was wise and ancient to me, but now I believe I am her age today, not old at all, and I still enjoy a good story and laugh.
Sit quietly and just allow your mind to drift. Capture those memories and write them down. What did you really enjoy doing that you stopped because life took control of you, instead of you taking control of your life? Where did you want to go? Who did you want to meet?
Write a list of questions. Interview yourself. Rekindle the spark to get you writing stories and build your manuscript from there.
Until you have a clear picture, Just Write. What? Anything. Whatever is on your mind. Just write and see where your mind takes you. Just like reading takes you on a journey outside of your environment, writing does the same thing. I allow you to escape to lands unknown…past and future.
In 1995, because my core training came from over 10 years of computer programming, I took a more technical route when I began to write again. I completed a few months of therapy and enjoyed the structured journaling my therapist had me do during and after each session. Today, I found my manuscript and was shocked to see it was typewritten. Typed not on a computer, but an electric typewriter. I remember owning a blue Brother’s electric typewriter in the 60s, but I do not know if that was the one I used.
I entitled it “You Must Be Kidding”. I advise my authors when they begin writing not to be overly structured. My advice is to write in composition books, journals, pieces of paper or talk on their smartphones or tablets. It was more important not to lose the thought or story. Capture it, however, they can.
Being a structured programmer, I created an outline based on the facts of my life. My story was not a memoir or biography but it was to be based on my life experiences.
Page 1: Reported my birth year and every year in which something eventful occurred spanning from 1950 – 1985; birth, first home in Germantown, elementary school, junior and senior high schools, my first and second corporate jobs, three marriages and my return to college to earn my degree.
Page 2: Listed all of the places I lived between 1950 and 1972…although I lived at a different location in 1978 through 1985. Each year had a description of who I lived with, where we lived and any other pertinent information I wanted to record at the time.
Page 3: Just had a page titled “Credit Cards and Debt.” (I don’t know why I would write about that.)
Page 4: This page listed four category headings:
The next five pages described events in detail. Honestly, not the content of a final draft. Just information I wanted to glean content from. It was my plan to write romance novels. I wanted to give my heroines happy and fulfilling lives because I wasn’t doing such a good job with my own relationships. Writing allowed me to experience feelings I could not feel through my marriage.
I began reading the entire series of books by successful romance authors and study their writing styles. These were just four of my favorites, and I read all of their books. It was as if I were taking a course on about each author.
I figured with my multiple marriages, I could write a series of African-American romance novels. My plan was to create my characters based on my husbands and people I knew. As a writer, I was in control of how they responded to challenges in their relationships, the outcomes would be different from how mine turned out. Instead of being married to three different men, the stories would be about three married sisters. These women would be able to work out their differences with their husbands. That was the plan.
So, back to you. What to write? The professionals say to write what you know. That was what my first rejection letter told me. When I was 18, I submitted a short story to Redbook. They liked the story but believed it not realistic. It was a story about a telephone operator (took place in the 70s before the breakup of Bell Telephone and advent of cell phones) and a stranger who always called at 2:00 am. As the story evolved, they became friends and at the end, she agreed to meet him after work. This, of course, was against the rules, but they became very attracted to each other.
Now I’m not sure what part they believed was not realistic. I wrote what I knew. I was an Information Operator in the Directory Assistance Department for a year at Bell. I had many men compliment me on my sweet voice. I was also invited out for drinks after work. So the only missing piece was, she was African-American and he was European-American. That was the only part of the story I had not experienced in my short lifetime.
As I write this, I realize I did eventually fulfill that missing piece of the story with my marriage to my husband, Joe. I went against the rules, met him for a drink and we married 7 months later by a Rabbi.
So writing what you know is not a real reason to have your story rejected. How many science fiction and fantasy writers really experienced every aspect of their tales? So do not be forced to change your story, unless it is to strengthen and clarify it.
Write as the spirit leads you. Just Write.
First, get a clear understanding as to why you are writing this book. What story or message do you desire to get across? Who do you want to read your print book and listen to your audio book? Without a purpose, you will be as they say, “a ship without a rudder.”
My purpose is to write as much as I possibly can about my life experience in hopes it will encourage and inspire others to begin writing today. As they read One Smart Lady Says ‘Just Write,’ they can see how easy it is done. So they can say, “I can do it.”
During the course of my publishing career, most of my author’s stories reflected their life challenges, struggles and how they overcame them through their growing faith in the Lord. Now I know not everyone believes as I do. Nevertheless, I believe even if it is only faith-based on your own strength, you have a story to tell.
I want to read about someone who does not share my faith in the Most High God, and/or Jesus’ role in my salvation. I want to read how they succeeded to overcome their challenge or life struggles. It would be interesting to compare their story with another person experiencing the same challenge and struggle but who had a relationship with Christ. I want to read how someone or something hurt them and they walked away from the fellowship of the church.
I write to inform, as well as, entertain. In my book, “Joy Comes Through the Mourning” I write about my experience as a widow. Most may think this is a sad topic. The book includes short stories, poems, and examples of mind games I played as I overcame the death of my husband, Donald Karper in 2003. I originally ended the book with my joining my current church, Green Grove Baptist in 2004. As I worked on the final edit in 2011, I realized I needed to add, how my growing relationship with the Lord strengthened me and allowed me to open my heart to my husband, Willie Smart, who I married in 2008.
I write to encourage and empower young individuals to follow through on their dreams at the age they are, not waiting until they are older. In my book, “Hadana and the Skating Club”, my co-author was my seven-year-old niece, Hadana Trinity Smart. Yes, another One Smart Lady. It occurred to me that we were enjoying telling each other stories, and her ability to tell the story with passion and maturity. It also occurred to me to find a young artist to design the front cover. I found that artistic talent in Joy R. Smith. Joy was a senior at Hun School of Princeton and has since graduated and is attending Drew University.
So your purpose is developed for many different reasons. As you write, your purpose may be skewed in the beginning and will take form the more you get into the meat of the story. Don’t be took concern about grammar and structure. Pay close attention at this point to the building of your story and your characters. If writing non-fiction, do your research make sure it is sound.
So as I always say, stop over thinking about what you are going to write and “Just Write.”
“Just Write” is the answer to one of the #1 questions asked by those looking to write and publish a book: “How do I get started?” So ask I ask, “Why do I want to write this book?” and then tell them to “Just Write.
I am writing “One Smart Lady Says ‘Just Write'” because it seems to be the catalyst for getting first-time authors to begin their writing project. I tell them to throw the formulas and structure out of the window and just write uncensored and unedited. Then go back and examine and evaluate what you’ve written.
Over future posts, I will answer questions by using examples from books edited and published by Gladstone Publishing. Who should subscribe to this post? Individuals who have no idea how to get started with their writing project. “Bestselling Author” status is not the only goal you should set. The first goal should be to write a very good book that is readable, enjoyable and viral; one people will recommend to their family, friends, and associates.
I will ask questions and give you my answers. You should write and answer these questions as you can.
What is my purpose?
First get a clear understanding as to why you are writing this book. What story or message do you desire to get across? Who do you want to read your print book and listen to your audio book? Without a purpose, you will be as they say, “a ship without a rudder.” Read More
What do I have to say?
Until you have a clear picture, Just Write. What? Anything. Whatever is on your mind. Just write and see where your mind takes you. Just like reading takes you on a journey outside of your environment, writing does the same thing. I allow you to escape to lands unknown…past and future. Read More.
Where does my passion lay?
What are you passionate about? What are your conversations with friends and family like? Are you repeating the same stories to them you have been telling over the years? Have you been writing in journals, on napkins at restaurants or any scrap of paper or in your smartphone or tablet? That may be where you will find your passion and your story. Read More.
Is my story worth telling?
When you begin your project, it is too soon to judge. Just Write. As you review and edit, you will be able to restructure your story whether it is Fiction or Non-Fiction. Writing a book takes time. I am going to from this point on, refer to your book as a manuscript. Your manuscript can be messy and full of flaws. Your book, on the other hand, has to be clear, with words that move the reader from page to page with anticipation of its end. Read More.
Who am I writing for?
There may be times when you begin your manuscript, your audience is children. When I began writing “Pearl, The Little Light That Shines” my intention was to prepare a book for pre-teens to young adult. I had an accountability partner to whom I read each draft. As the book progressed, we began to understand the reader was going to be a must older audience. At the time, I was upset, but then I remembered my purpose. I wanted to tell a story about a young girl who lived in the 50s and 60s and tell how she dealt with the day-to-day challenges presented in her life. Through a series of books, each book would take place at a different time in her life.
How will my story reach them?
Am I referring to marketing and distribution at this point? Yes. Even as you decide on your audience, you have to also see where they live and play. Keep you eyes on both print and social media venues. Join special interest or focus groups who share your interests. Get yourself known. Begin to put together your own Facebook Group, Twitter and Instagram followers. Grow your business. Yes. Writing is a business which you should take seriously. Begin to grow your team. Who will be your publicist? Who will be your event coordinator? Who will design your marketing material?
As I said, you are building this team of resources. It takes the time to build a relationship which is strong. That is why you should do it as you are writing your manuscript.
Many have been stopped by the thoughts: “I’m not smart enough.” “Why would anyone want to read a book written by me?” “I don’t write. I hate writing.”
Well, if you can speak your story verbally…your story can be written by a Ghost Writer. There are many people in the world waiting for a solution out of their situation. Your story may be the one to help them. If you hate writing…dictate it and have it transcribed. There are no more excuses in this high-tech age.
Each year I join the masses who set goals to lose weight, stop smoking, learn a new language, exercise more or any one or two activities which will improve our lives. I consider myself to be very disciplined and tend to find creative ways to self-motivate and achieve my personal goals. I received an email with a wonderful message about enjoying life. I also saw another way to monitor and achieve goals. I want to share it with you because it moved me to follow it’s format, albeit not with the same purpose, but it is a wonderful visual tool to help keep focused each day.
“The story has been passed down many years now so I’m not sure of its origin. But it goes something like this…
It was a warm Saturday morning in sunny South Florida when, flipping through the channels on an old ham radio, he stumbled on a voice that was so crystal clear and attractive, it felt like the broadcaster on the other end was speaking directly to him.
The voice, like my mentor, cherished his Saturdays. It was time he spent with his family. Time he didn’t have to work. Time he took to relax, read, and reflect. And so he did some math…
If the average person lives to be 75, the mysterious voice said, and there are 52 weeks in each of those 75 years, that’s 3,900 Saturdays in a lifetime. He went on to add that 2,800 of those Saturdays were already gone by the time he realized this. So with just about 1,000 Saturdays left, he went out in search of 1,000 marbles to represent each of his remaining special days.
Three toy stores later, he brought every single marble he collected home and put them inside of a large, clear plastic container. Then, every Saturday, he took one out and threw it away.
He found that by watching his bunch of marbles diminish, he could focus more on the really important things in life. That there was nothing like actually watching your time run out to help you get your priorities straight.
Then he said something startling. He announced that today, this very special Saturday, he took his very last marble out of the container and threw it away.
If he makes it until next Saturday, he figured, he’d have been given a little extra time. And the one thing we can all use is a little more time.”
So this story got me thinking about my time left and how I wanted to spend them. I have three major goals I would like to achieve this quarter. If I am successful, I will be able to live without fear of being homeless and destitute. Last year, we lost our home due to foreclosure, and have been living by the grace of God in a home provided by a dear friend. This home is a temporary home for us and we have move again. It is my prayer and if it is the Lord’s will we will have another home where we can live out the rest of our lives without being subject to tenancy.
So…I have set up three containers: 21, 30 and 90 marbles. In 21 days, I want to increase my business income. In 30 days, I want to us to know that we have a home to live in for at least another year with the goal of moving only one more time into a “forever home”. In 90 days, I will complete the 2nd installation of ‘The String of Pearl’ series.
I wish you only the best in 2016. I thank God for everyone who stood by us in 2015. Without God’s grace and mercy we would have been homeless and I would be blind in my left eye. If you have a 21, 30 and 90 day challenge, this will be a visual for you also to stay focused. You can follow me on instagram smartdeborah. Each Saturday, I will remove a marble from each container and post them on Instagram as a visual reminder time is slipping by.
I took a creative writing course at Drexel University in Philadelphia in the early 80s when the writing bug bit me. The bite spread a virus throughout my mind and heart. I have written and published three books; and many blog articles. I have edited and ghost written books by first-time writers whose books got published. After publication, and the first book signing party, not every author was prepared to market their book. As a small press publisher with limited funds, I set up a webpage and announced their publication via social media. But that really was not enough to get them book sales. People would click on like and leave glowing comments, but it usually led to very few sales. All or most of the responsibility for the marketing and distribution of self-published and small press books fall in the lap of the author.
First ask yourself, “Where do I want to go with this book?” Here are some options:
You decide. Plan your strategy to get yourself known.
To learn more about the business of publishing and book sales, I recommend you build a resource library by subscribing to online resources. I took an online class in writing years ago on Writing Dialogue with Writers Digest. I continue to follow their programs. Below is a link to their site. Don’t forget to use their coupon code AFFTEN:
If you have any questions about getting started with your first project, please contact me, I would be more than happy to help.
Since it’s taken over a month, almost two months to finish this move, I have done little in the area of publishing. I have been writing, I must admit, and working with the last of my protege clients. But, I had really expected to see more book sales. This is the awful truth about becoming an author and being in the publishing business. I teach my clients to build a following and to talk about their characters and introduce them to their book by way of social media. Unfortunately, the majority of followers like pictures and rarely read books.
I’ve had breakfast with one recent client who was upset with my lack of marketing for the new book. Unfortunately, my personal drama took my time away from my business. My income has dwindled. So I began searching for another stream of the Multiple Stream of Income Paradigm. I found surveys to be the answer.
Well not all surveys. There was one where I could qualify for a $250 gift card with Walmart. I love Walmart. So I said out Saturday morning filling out survey after survey as I collected points to reach the $250 gift card qualification. I answered I don’t know how many surveys and only gathered 40 points when the survey froze on one webpage. I could not go forward…I tried but to no avail. I lost out on the $250 but now have a dozen survey companies emailing me. Of course, I am un-subscribing as is my right but what a pain.
The internet is full of fraudulent opportunities. Be very careful with whom you join. My experience with two or more did not work out. I reported them…oh well.
“Be Sincere and Truthful Always – Touch Someone’s Life Through Love” D. W. Smart
|Date:||May 19, 2015|
|Time:||6:00 PM EST|
|Appearance:||Interview with Win Charles on “Women of Wisdom”|
|Outlet:||Blog Talk Radio - Win Charles, A Woman With Cerebral Palsy - Women of Wisdom Show|