Don’t Punish Yourself
Have you considered the fact, God has forgiven us for every sin, mistake, and failure we ever made or will ever make?
Ways of Self-Punishment
- Turning our anger inward
- Robbing ourselves of pleasure
- Acting out Self-defeating Behaviors
- Failing to accomplish personal objectives
Solution: Form a counter habit.
- Too Critical?
-Change to Complimentary Mode.
- Feeling Bad about Yourself?
-Volunteer in your community.
-Give sacrificially to a good cause in either time or money
-Help someone in real need
Looking in the mirror of self-reflection is not always beneficial. Like the distorted mirrors at the carnival, you may look fat when you are actually thin.
“God intended self-reflection to be the means of honest information about ourselves for growth and healing.”
“Search me, O God, and know my heart:
Try me and know my thoughts:
And see if there be any wicked way in me,
And lead me in the way everlasting.”
This prayer leads us directly to the heart of God. It addresses exactly what God intended self-reflection to be; motivating us to know ourselves deeply and therefore to reach out for God, not to find a reason to self-punish.
Healthy self-reflection opens your mind to full discovery and spiritual wholeness.
“If we fail to become whole in mind and spirit, it is not because the Gospel is insufficient for our needs. It is because our grasps of the Gospel is so deficient.” Dr. Archibald D. Hart
Next: How the Ten Habits Fit Together: Habit 5: Value Life’s Little Blessings
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